by Najaf Dostalieyev DTM Division D Director
Before stepping into the election process—and later being elected as a Division Director — I was genuinely intimidated by the weight of such a responsibility. I had served in various roles across four different districts, but Division leadership felt like a whole new mountain to climb. It took two years, two districts, and a lot of internal reflection to finally quiet my fears, confront my self-doubt, and say yes to the calling of leadership.
What I quickly learned is this: when you say you want to serve, you discover that leadership is never about the title. It’s not about recognition. It’s about consistently showing up — for others, for the mission, and for the growth that happens in between. Leadership has the power to transform hearts, build trust, and create lasting friendships. In District 25, that transformation is nurtured by an incredible circle of past and present leaders who walk alongside you, encourage you, and never let you feel alone.
So, when the opportunity came last year to apply for the Division Director role, I took a deep breath — and said yes. I even renewed my personal Zoom account (trust me, you will need Zoom for all those meetings!).
With the heartfelt support of Past District Directors, Marcheta Gardner and Emily Murray, I submitted my application and sat for the interview with the District Leadership Committee. Their warmth and support made the process feel inviting, not intimidating. When I was elected, I felt a mix of deep gratitude … and quiet vulnerability. There were moments the climb felt steep, but I was never climbing alone. I was lifted by the unwavering support of our District Trio — Jesse Ford, Phylliss Christian Daniels, and Denise McConnell — and inspired by the mentorship of Jamie Pickering and Chris Raneri. Their wisdom and calm presence helped light my way, especially during uncertain moments.
Most importantly, I had the privilege of working with three outstanding Area Directors: Lorenzo Narvaez, Clara Ngwenya, and Lisa Herrick. Early in the year, one of our fellow Area Directors had to step away for personal reasons, and suddenly we were a team of three. We adapted. With help from Jesse Ford and Chris Raneri, we reassigned clubs and reshaped our plans with care and confidence. Thanks to Jamie’s wise reminder — “let them choose; ask questions instead of giving instructions” — I began to understand what servant leadership really looks like. That guidance became a cornerstone of how I led throughout the year. Overall, we had an amazing year as a division, and I will miss every minute I spent with each of these area directors.
Working alongside District leaders, fellow Division Directors, Area Directors, club officers, members, District Staff – Lola Stone and John Aparico, and many others, I grew into a more compassionate, grounded, and supportive leader — one who listens deeply and leads with heart.
Throughout the year, I continued learning from the best, especially from inspiring past District leaders like Diana Patton and Jodie Sanders, whose example of grace, strength, and generosity left a lasting mark on me.
This journey hasn’t just changed my role — it has changed me, how I lead, how I serve, and how I show up for others. In my new role as an upcoming Program Quality Director, I am deeply grateful for the support and trust I have been shown and for all of it—the growth, the friendships, and the shared mission. I am looking forward to continuing my service to our members and our mission.
